Pro-choice doesn’t mean pro-death… despite what pro-lifers think

On a regular basis, my inbox has numerous e-newsletters from various organizations talking about their stance on pro-life and how pro-choice is murder. As much as they rail on those who aren’t “pro-life” because of their pro-choice stance, i.e. pro-death, to think that any woman would ever choose to get pregnant just to have an abortion is ridiculous. By saying one person is pro-life and the other is?? Let’s just call a spade a spade. Pro-lifers think pro-choice advocates are murderers and that they condone murder, which is bunch of BS.

When I found out a tryst with a friend when I was 21 on his birthday led to pregnancy, I had two choices to make. Abort or become a mother. That decision was not easy. I sat and cried on my bathroom floor for three hours. I didn’t tell my mom about the pregnancy for three months. I kept everything a secret except for the father…. Who later proved to be a degenerate when his oxycotin addiction which led to heroin abuse and consequently in 2010, his body was found discarded on the side of the road in Tijuana. Thankfully i was far away getting an education and then working full time.

While pro-lifers would argue that my son was meant to be, these same people criticize me for not being married, for not having a father for my son, for having to depend on government subsidies to get by when my son was young. They deny the biology of sex and call it a miracle. It isn’t a miracle. IT’S BIOLOGY. No one should be forced to carry a child because of biology. I shouldn’t have to die from cancer (by doing nothing) because of biology. If we want to believe everything is a godsend and we should just let nature take it course… well… it’s a travesty to even think along those lines.

But the real deal is this. There are two sorts of people and two perspectives.

Pro-lifers versus pro-death.

and

Pro-choice versus no-choice.

Pretty easy to figure out my point of view.

When statutory rape equals BIG BUCK$! Ventura Police Department sued for $10 million

It never ceases to amaze me the unlimited greed in the world today. I am just about speechless. Sixteen year old girls all over the country are having sex with men older than the age of 18 and little is done. But when it is with someone with money behind him, time to cash in!
This is bewildering to me. If the girl was 12, I would have a problem. I understand statutory rape. I understand rape. I get all of this. But to say this girl had no clue what she was getting herself into with the 27 year old Ricky Payne, preposterous. I too was a 16 year old girl. We very much know what we are getting ourselves into at that age.

LOSS OF FUTURE WAGES in the amount of $1 million? ARE YOU KIDDING ME? The cop involved committed suicide when he got wind that the Ventura PD was investigating him but that’s not enough.See the lawsuit here: Redacted_Jane L Doe_Provided to VC Star 02-20-13
I just can’t get over it. If this was any ordinary dude slinging pizzas, mom would probably wring her hands in disgust and drop it. Because because it’s the PD, let’s make some money!
And let’s be clear about this–when the term sexual assault is used, it doesn’t mean the girl didn’t give her consent. It just means she was too young to give consent. If she was fully engaged in a relationship with this guy, I find this lawsuit to be extremely superfluous because there would be no lawsuit if this had been any other average joe with no $$$ behind him. Yes, it’s terrible an officer was doing this, but he was an idiot. And so was she. She made a choice. And he is dead. And our officers need to be held to better standards than everyone else. But to seek $10 million in damages because the girl is suffering is ridiculous. Why weren’t her parents more actively involved in her life? If a parent can’t keep track of their teenage daughter, why do they think the police department knew what was going on and then would hold back an investigation? I understand the reputation but tis better to get this guy off the force immediately then to continue with a coverup.
And regarding this girl’s mental health–seems that it wasn’t so much the relationship she apparently voluntarily chose to be in but rather that her guy shot himself. I’ve seen many a teenage girl rebound from heartbreak but suicide of a partner is much more traumatic.
And furthermore, anyone who can get a driver’s license and get into a car and put other people’s lives in danger SHOULD also be able to have the license to choose whomever she wants to sleep with. So let’s make a deal–we either drop the age of consent to make stupid choices like sleeping with 27 year old men to 15 OR we just make the age of consent 25 for everyone because almost everyone is making terrible choices up until that point. COME ON PEOPLE.
And I gotta hand it to Ron Bamieh. I can’t keep up with all the lawsuits he has filed against police departments as of late.

Liberals don’t fear Marco Rubio

So the guy was thirsty when he was delivering his rebuttal to the state of the union speech. Liberals aren’t ripping on the guy for being thirsty. We are making a fuss because he is unpolished and unprofessional. He should have been better prepared. That’s it. This too shall pass but the bottom line is, mr. Rubio, you are far from a smooth operator, something us liberals really dig.

Underpaid teachers?

I keep hearing that teachers are underpaid… But for Ms. Stacie Halas who had been working less than 10 years as a teacher and was not tenured–she made $79,000…. I also assume she had summers off but either way, $79,000 does not seem to be a bad annual salary. I’m confused….

Taking Oxnard PD all the way to the bank–including child support for an unborn baby

http://www.vcstar.com/news/2013/jan/23/oxnard-faces-claim-filed-on-behalf-of-unborn/

I read this story today in the Star and to be quite honest, I am amazed. I can’t believe how far this has gone. Not only will the family most likely get money for Ramirez’s wrongful death, but now the deceased felon’s and apparent drug addict’s baby’s mom may even get an award.
I am somewhat bewildered. From all accounts, Robert Ramirez of Oxnard had been on the wrong path for a long time and could have died from a meth overdose. If the police hadn’t have intervened, Ramirez might have died from his own drug abuse and the family and his unborn son wouldn’t have gotten much more than social security. But Ramirez posed a threat to the general public, the officers used restraint that led to his death, and now everyone tied to Ramirez will most likely make a pretty penny off of his death. Even worse, officers may be more inclined now to let those overdosing on illegal substances run wild in the face of wrongful death lawsuits. And should they do just that for fear they will apply too much force in restraint, anyone hurt because of such a person will again be able to sue for the lack of intervention and officers failing to do their job. What a mess.
I recall in “It’s a Wonderful Life,” George Bailey came to a conclusion that everyone would have been better off had he never been born. His angel then reveals to Bailey just how bad things would have been had he never been born and thus rejuvenated his will to live and keep on fighting for the good.
Unfortunately, in the case of Ramirez…. the loss of his life is a cash cow for those around him.
It’s a sad state of affairs.

Stacie Halas–what did you get yourself into?

As most of you know who have been following the Stacie Halas — hardcore porn actress turned teacher– case, then you know that her plea to save her job with the Oxnard School District has been shot down by the Commission on Professional Competence, i.e., the commission sided with the district. So now what? Is she going to take it to court? That’s still up in the air.

The hardest part is that I just can’t figure her out. I very seriously doubt I will ever meet her as she goes through all these legal hoops so I am being judgmental based solely on what I have heard and read. But I do think she will go as far as she can to get money. Why? This case has gotten so out of hand, I seriously doubt she will be able to get a job in another school district any time soon. Her only chance is to change her name and somehow alter her appearance so that this won’t happen again, or at least not as easily. She could speak with a new district and talk about her attempts to change her appearance so that she wouldn’t be associated with her porn and the drama in Oxnard. She could be upfront that her past may be an issue for her students. And for all you Halas fans, WE KNOW SHE ISN’T A PEDOPHILE, nor did she have any intentions of becoming one. This is about young male curiosity and the lack of self control of teenage boys and maybe even girls NOT to look at their teacher doing…. well. I am not going to go into the graphic details here, but those videos are not your parents’ Playboy mags. Her videos are — wow! You go girl, but seriously… YOU had to know there could be some ethical concerns that could pose consequences. And then of course she lied to her superiors at the district. Not a good idea….

But my main reasoning about the money, which I do hope I am wrong about, is that if she was willing to get into an industry that could have destroyed her future career she so desperately wanted for $10,000, then it seems only logical that money is her priority and damn the consequences. I hope I am wrong.

Spammers gone overboard–threats of violence are too much

I recently received a very hostile and threatening email trying to extort money from me or I would be terminated. I have seen a lot of spam in my time, but this is insane. Please forward to your friends and family and see if they have received similar emails. We need to be armed with knowledge to counter these creeps.
From William Amon, wamon37@gmail.com
(if this guy has been hacked, he needs to know. Otherwise, we need to track these jerks down.)
Subject line:
READ THIS FOR YOUR OWN GOOD
This is the only way I could contact you for now,I want you to be very careful about this and keep this secret with you until I make out space for us to see. You have no need of knowing who I am or where I am from.I know this may sound very surprising to you but it’s the situation.I have been paid some ransom in advance to terminate you with some reasons listed to me by my employer.It’s someone I believe you call a friend, I have followed you closely for a while now and have seen that you are innocent of the accusations he leveled against you.Do not contact the police or try to send a copy of this to them,because if you do, I will know,and I might be pushed to do what I have been paid to do.Besides, this is the 1st time I turn out to be a betrayer in my job.I took pity on you,that is why I have made up my mind to help you if you are willing to help yourself.

Now listen,I will arrange for us to see face to face,but before that,I need $5,000. I will come to your home or you determine where you wish we meet;I repeat, do not arrange for the cops and if you play hard to get, it will be extended to your family.Do not set any camera to cover us or set up any tape to record our conversation, my employer is in my control now. Payment details will be provided for you to make a part payment of $2,500 first,which will serve as guarantee that you are ready to you co-operate,then i will post a copy of the video tape that contains his request for me to terminate you which will be enough evidence for you to take any legal action against him before he employs another person for the job. You will pay the balance of $2,500 once you receive the tape.

Warning; do not contact the police, make sure you stay indoors once it is 7.30pm until this whole thing is sorted out,if you neglect any o fthese warnings, you will have yourself to blame. You do not have much time, so get back to me immediately

Note:I will advise you keep this to yourself alone, not even a friend or a family member should know about it because it could be one of them.

So if you are interested, i await your reply ASAP so i can tell you how you will make the payment.

Thanks.